Love in the two faced world...

Guys don’t fret, oh please don’t! I have chosen to write on a topic like this today knowing fully that I won’t be able to do justice to it: P

Maybe because I don’t have the adequate experience (just as my friends always say), but because I know we can observe and form opinions only when we are at a distance from it, out or in we can’t. It’s the truth ‘cause somewhere down the line we have that ego, and we don’t accept things that we do, however wrong they may be... J

I know I maybe sounding outstandingly idiotic and crazy, but guys bear with me, and I had to bring this up, someday someplace to introspect....

“What do you mean, when you say that you love me?” I really want the answer. “What do you  mean by love is not my destination?” Should I take it as like, “love is just a hobby for me, but my career is important because girl I need money.” When guys say such seemingly stupid stuff, it points out to their shallow thinking, and very narrow understanding. Or should I say cowardly?! Very well they are afraid, so are girls!

But then from where this love comes in between??? I don’t get this. Why do you malign a feeling of that rank? We in today’s world just don’t know what it means; actually not even our forefathers know its meaning. Yes unfortunately this is the condition. Why would then the kings and queens marry countless number of times?  Taj Mahal the symbol love, built by Shahajahan for his fourth wife out of the seven he had, and when she died he married her sister. God all this is just show-off in the name of the so called “love”. The biggest question arises is of love, where is this love???

I see it as, okay Emperor Shahajahan married seven girls, maybe he was in search of true love, but unfortunately he did not get, or maybe he did not want it. All mattered was the money and his throne. It’s still the same.  In every person’s life he/she has at least two girlfriend/boyfriend, this is the average okay some have more and with god’s grace they even are happy, don’t know for what? Either for getting so many chicks, or with the feeling that they hot and desirable.  Well well well, what are we humans arriving at???

Love is the truest of feelings; I have known it like that since childhood. Maybe I won’t get anyone who loves me(significant other), but that won’t destroy my faith in that four letter word... let the bad experience take a back seat, it doesn’t even matter. People run behind a girl or a boy saying that they love her/him.  Why do you do that? You don’t have to run behind love? It’s not a goddamn train or bus!!! Nor will knock on your door though, but still I mean its eternal, you see them and at that very moment you know it all. And that’s all. (I guess this sounds too filmy: P)

A guy loves a girl, who was his gf but she left, reasons known to her. Then she came back saying she can’t do any wrong with him, and that she doesn’t deserve him as she loves another guy and she gave everything to that another guy. Well well, first of all she was dishonest, second she used him for temporary pleasure, knowing very well that she didn’t love him, and now she came back again started saying stuff like deserving and all. Bullshit!!! God how stupid is this guy behind her; he still believes she is good and that she is in terrible pain. Man if you can feel her pain, become a messiah or her advisor and good friend, why a lover? If you still love her out of sympathy then let me tell you this isn’t love. The moment you understand a person’s love you are liked, but when you start feeling that pain, dude you lost!!! You are not supposed to feel pain, you are not asked for sympathy or for any solution, if she wanted to be with you would she not have emotionally blackmailed you saying she doesn’t deserve you! This is such a terrible mess. Doctors treat thousands of people who are sick, and I can see hundreds begging in terrible condition, I feel their pain and I have sympathy, but then it’s not love, its love out of sympathy.... (If you disagree do think this way, just give it a thought. Consider this example.)

Only when you can make a person understand, bring him/her out of his problems only then you stand to hold the right to love that person. If you derive only happiness, want only the good things and no problems in your paradise, I must say you should try getting a pet, not a lover. Infact pets are true lovers; there are many facets to this fact too.

Still we teenagers get into relationships, sometimes being aware of the absence of love. I don’t know what’s it for.

 And without any experience I can’t say anything on this. Just as my friend Wishv says it’s an experience in itself, though a bad one, you can learn J

Finally I can’t arrive on any conclusion, sorry. J

He he you all must be thinking I am crazy, let me tell you I certainly am...

And all the best with your so called “love”: P: P