Struggling for a moment

Sometimes in life we just forget to see, stand and think, and sort things out. We become so engaged with the obligations and responsibilities that we forget the reality of life. We don’t at all stand for even a second and think whatever we are doing is right or wrong, its only because we start liking all the material things which give us short term pleasures.

It isn’t wrong striving for luxury and hapiness, but the essence of all it lies in helping out our fellow human beings. Money can buy you status and companions but not relations and satisfaction. I am saying this because, i have seen people, my near and dear ones talking about just money and luxury. They see it as success, but for me it seems distant. I don’t know what kind success they refer to. For me success is only in making everyone happy, and being able to help people however i can J

And i know one thing success is not a selfish realisation of one’s goals but of collective happiness. You can’t enjoy alone, you need company and that you’ll get if you are considerate and sensitive to others. I don’t like it when i see people alone, they sure do need some time alone but it hurts after sometime. The man on the top is the one who is most alone, fighting alone and living a lonely life away from the common simple pleasures of life.

Sometimes we forget those old ripe fruits of humanity who are here to provide us wisdom. I mean our grandparents. In today’s world when one don’t respect his/her parents the thought of grandparents is farfetched. I can’t stop my eyes from crying when i see old people alone, it hurts me to no end. When last year i lost my grandpa, i was broken ‘cause i lost my friend, advisor, and my support system. I couldn’t do anything to save him, this feeling of helplessness makes me sad whenever i remember him.

                                          I struggle for the moment to stand and think, about what success means to me, of what i want in my life, and remember my grandpa. And i always struggle for the moment when i would be able to help anyone, just anyone....

i struggle for this moment because this each passing moment i learn something worthwhile, new and the about importance of humility. This will give me all the blessings and love, i try to share... J